If you’ve ever found yourself with a feline shadow, trailing you from room to room as if you’re the greatest thing since since Fancy Feast Wild Alaskan Salmon Appetizers, you’re not alone. I have two cats. A boy cat (black) and a girl cat (Tortie). The boy cat is my protector. Follows me all over hells half acre (not just into the bathroom). When I’m working in my office – he’s there laying on a little blanket I have all ready for him. Or, he sneaks up behind my computer monitors and just snoozes. I’ve trained him to pretty much leave me be when I’m working. He’s a good boy.
My girl cat on the other hand, couldn’t care less where I’m at (unless it’s time for breakfast, supper, or a treat). After all, she IS a Tortie!
Cats can be surprisingly persistent and my boy cat is no exception. Even my Tortie can be rather passionate in her pursuit if it has anything to do with her stomach. So, what’s behind this relentless following? What are some reasons why your cat might be sticking to you like glue?
Let’s take a look…
- Affection
It’s simple. They love your company! Cats are known for their independent nature, but they also form strong bonds with their humans. When your kitty follows you around, it’s their way of showing you affection and letting you know they enjoy your presence. It’s feline social interaction and of course, it’s on their terms. They want what they want when they want it. But of course, if they don’t want it, you may as well go out to the kitchen and make a cup of tea!
- Curiosity
Cats are naturally curious. I can’t bring a box or an Amazon envelope package in the house without my little freaks getting their noses in them. They’re my bomb squad I guess.
They want to be involved in whatever you’re doing. Whether you’re cooking, cleaning, or just pacing about, your cat might be following you simply to keep an eye on things in their environment. To them, you and whatever you are doing are a part of their exploration and daily routine. Their interest in your activities keeps them engaged and entertained.
- Hunger
If you find your cat following you, especially around mealtimes, hunger might be the driving force behind their behavior. I would advise feeding them ahead of the family sitting down to partake. Cats are often adept at sensing when their human is about to provide food, I know mine are. Their stomach clocks are right on. Following you is their way of making sure you don’t forget about them and their own subtle way of reminding you that their dinner (or snack) time is on point.
- Comfort and Security
Cats often look to their owners for reassurance and safety. If your feline is feeling insecure or anxious, they might follow you as a source of comfort. Your presence can be calming for them, especially in unfamiliar or stressful situations. If you’ve recently moved to a new home or experienced a change in routine, your cat might be seeking the stability and reassurance that comes from being close to you.
- I Want Attention!
Cats are playful animals, and sometimes following you can be a playful behavior. If your cat is particularly active or in need of attention, they might be using the opportunity to engage you in a game or to get some interactive playtime. Cats often look for social interaction (on their terms of course), and following you around can be their way of soliciting some extra play or attention. My Tortie’s favorite toy is this fishing pole with a little tiny feather on the end. When she wants to interact with MaMa, she’ll go over and sit by her toy (which is always just hanging out on the floor somewhere) and look at me. My boy just brings his favorite of the moment toy over to me and drops it at my feet.
- Habit
Sometimes, following you can simply become a habit. We all know, cats like routine. They expect you to be in certain places at certain times. It’s their daily rhythm, especially if they’ve grown accustomed to your patterns and movements. The kitty I had (that passed away this past March ’24) would get all out of sorts if I didn’t go to bed at my usual time. The felines that live with me now start running from one end of the house to the other if they don’t see me following the routine they have become accustomed to.
- Medical or Behavioral Issues
Then there’s medical or behavioral issues. If nothing else seems to make sense, it’s worth considering that there might be underlying issues. Cats will sometimes follow you around due to discomfort or pain. Especially if they’re experiencing issues that haven’t been directly addressed. If you notice any unusual changes in behavior or signs of distress – CALL THE VET – STAT!!
The next time you find your little shadow shadowing you, take a moment to appreciate all the reasons behind their behavior. Affection? Curiosity? Habit? Your kitty’s loyalty and attention are their unique way of connecting with you. Embrace the furry little freaks and enjoy the subtle reminders of just how special your bond can be.
Ciao,
Disclaimer: The information and opinions herein are based on personal research. My Blog posts are intended for informational purposes only. I am not a Licensed Veterinarian nor am I any sort of medical professional. I am merely a human who takes caring for my pets seriously. My goal is to share my research with other like-minded individuals with the hope that it will help others in some small (or perhaps large) way.
